Cbt Based Self Help

Seek help from the NHS for depression or an anxiety disorder and it's likely that, sooner or later, you'll be offered some form of CBT-based self-help. There are face-to-face classes. There are online programmes. There are books on prescription. Then there's group or individual cognitive behavioural therapy, but in my experience, on the NHS this is still likely to be heavily focused on self-help. Typically, you are taught techniques, set homework, then discharged once you're making progress with the expectation that you can 'become your own therapist' and continue the work by yourself.

When I founded Sirius Project back in 2003, I was a passionate advocate of this type of CBT. It was empowering to take charge of my own recovery and some of the techniques really did seem to make a difference to the way I felt. However, as time has gone by I've become increasingly disillusioned with the approach. Although CBT thought records do provide some temporary relief from the symptoms of depression and have been a useful coping skill for me, they haven't been able to help me recover or stop me from relapsing. Worse, I've come to realise that the CBT I've had was actually feeding into some of the factors which were making me ill in the first place, such as perfectionism, pushing myself too hard and difficulty turning to others for support.

In this post, I'm going to share some of the CBT information and resources from the old Sirius Project website, but also inject a note of caution and talk a little about when CBT-based self-help might and might not be appropriate.

THE THEORY

Cognitive behavioural therapy is a practical treatment based on the theory that our thoughts, behaviours, emotions (mood) and some physical symptoms all influence each other. It is therefore possible to change the way you feel by changing your thoughts and behaviours.

For example, if you feel depressed, you're likely to have all sorts of negative thoughts about yourself and other people. These make you feel even worse. Then you might stay in bed all day because you can't face the world, and you hate yourself because you didn't do any of the things you were supposed to do. Physical symptoms like trouble sleeping and loss of appetite (so not eating properly) can also feed into the cycle. You're trapped in a vicious circle where you just go on feeling worse and worse.

Similarly, if you're afraid of public speaking, you're likely to feel very anxious or even panicky at the thought of doing this. You might find yourself thinking, "I'll mess it up. Everyone will laugh at me." Then you might get physical symptoms like shaking hands or trouble concentrating, and these make it more likely that you "will" make a mistake, deepening your fear. You might start avoiding situations where you have to speak in public, but the longer you put it off, the more terrified you feel - and you never have an opportunity to build up your confidence or learn how to cope. Again, you're trapped in a cycle.

However, if you can break the cycle at any point, you can start to feel better. CBT teaches you to identify the thoughts and behaviours that feed into the cycle and change these so that your mood and other symptoms will improve.

THE REALITY

In my experience, the way we think and how we behave absolutely do affect our mood and can feed into the symptoms of mental health problems such as depression and anxiety disorders. I have experienced it myself that when I challenge the negative, distorted thoughts that are part and parcel of depression, and come up with more rational, balanced alternatives, my mood does lift - temporarily.

The problem I have with CBT-based self-help is that it often takes a fairly simplistic view of mental health problems and focuses on addressing symptoms rather than the underlying causes. At best, this means a lot of hard work constantly having to practise CBT skills because - as one popular self-help book admits - you are doing the equivalent of trimming back weeds rather than pulling them out at the root. (This is particularly frustrating when you have been promised by the NHS that CBT will cure you.) At worst, you might find that the programme doesn't work or even makes your symptoms worse because the factors that make you depressed or anxious and keep you that way are different from the ones assumed by whoever designed the programme. For example, most CBT-based self-help for depression encourages you to become more active, yet my depression tends to be triggered by pushing myself too hard and I find that spending a lot of time resting is actually what I need.

You might think that having individual CBT would help to avoid these pitfalls. Yet even when I was referred to an NHS CBT service providing individual therapy for "complex and difficult-to-treat" patients, I got little more than formulaic, guided self-help that failed to acknowledge the complexity of my issues. It's important to acknowledge, however, that CBT doesn't have to be like this. I have it on good authority (from a friend who is training to be a therapist) that in its full form, CBT works on the root causes of mental health problems and is very different to the 'sticking plaster' version typical of the NHS.

One final potential issue with CBT-based self-help is that it places a lot of responsibility on the patient (or client, or service user - whatever you like to be called). This can be empowering, but I feel the idea of 'becoming your own therapist' is often abused by the NHS as an excuse for not providing appropriate help and support. Similarly, some CBT-based resources seem to imply that 'twisted thinking' and unhealthy behaviours are the cause of any emotional or mental health problem, ignoring the effect our emotions have on how we think and act, as well as the roles of biology, life experiences and other factors. In my opinion, 'good' CBT should always acknowledge the way these factors feed into one another, and be focusing on thoughts and behaviours because these are the things we can change directly; it should never imply that the patient is to blame for all their problems.

WHEN IS CBT-BASED SELF-HELP APPROPRIATE?

I think CBT-based self-help is worth a try if:

* Your mental health problems are mild and not particularly complex OR you'd just like to learn some coping skills. (I personally feel that CBT thought records saved my life when I had no other healthy ways of coping with depression, so I'm not knocking it as a self-help technique - I just have problems with the way the NHS uses and abuses it.)
* The theory behind the CBT makes sense to you and seems to correspond with your own experiences. (Some CBT-based self-help resources, such as the books in the Overcoming series, start off with a lot of information about the problem they're designed to treat and this is really worth reading to see whether your particular flavour of depression/anxiety/whatever is likely to be helped.)
* You're willing to change the way you think and behave, and won't feel overly invalidated or triggered by an approach that asks you to do this. (See also my comments above about resources that imply if you feel crap it's all your own fault!)

It's also worth looking out for CBT resources that seem to target your underlying problems rather than the surface symptoms. For example, I'm finding a CBT-based guide to overcoming perfectionism far more helpful than one about beating depression. Resources which target 'core beliefs' - the longstanding views we hold about ourselves, the world and other people - are definitely worth a look, although I've personally found that I need professional help with this.

CBT-BASED SELF-HELP RESOURCES

If you haven't been put off by all of the above ;) and would still like to give CBT-based self-help a go, here's some further information and resources.

"Challenging Thoughts"

This part of CBT is very similar no matter what your problem is. It involves identifying thoughts that are causing you distress or feeding into your issues, and then challenging them with an alternative, more balanced way of looking at things. There are two main ways of doing this that I've come across. One involves writing out all the factual evidence for and against your most distressing thought in a 'thought record'. I've written a post about how to do this, with examples from one of my own thought records, here. The other involves learning about common types of distorted thoughts and how to spot these in your own thinking. This is covered in detail by David Burns in his book The Feeling Good Handbook, and his 'ten forms of twisted thinking' are available online at BPDRecovery.com.

"Changing Behaviour"

The behavioural side of CBT-based self-help varies depending on what your problems are. It involves identifying the behaviours that feed into your cycle and finding ways to change them. For example, for a phobia, it could involve gradual exposure to the things that make you anxious. For BPD, it could involve learning healthier and more effective ways of coping, so that you don't swing from crisis to crisis and end up feeling more and more distressed (that's what DBT aims to do, although it takes a more validating approach than CBT). If your main problem is primarily a behaviour, for example an eating disorder or self-harm, CBT-based self-help will of course involve tackling this.

Here are a few resources that focus on changing behaviours for specific problems:

CBT for Depression

An example of the approach that does NOT work for me! :P

Using Rational Emotive Therapy to Control Anger

Good for all forms of freak-out - anger, panic or just feeling like you can't cope.

The Five Steps

A simple coping technique for people who tend to make impulsive decisions.

"Thoughts and Behaviour: Comprehensive Resources"

Living Life to the Full

An online, CBT-based life skills course that aims to help people suffering with depression and/or anxiety among other issues.

Self-Help Leaflets

CBT-based booklets covering a range of specific problems from depression and anxiety to self-harm and hearing voices. Available in PDF or audio format.

SOURCES

My understanding of the theory behind CBT-based self-help is drawn from the books Mind Over Mood by Greenberger and Padesky and Feeling Good by David Burns.

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68. My name is Giovanni Giorgio, but everyone calls me Giorgio.

69. All the good songs were coming from England and America, so for some time I didn't try to compete by writing in English.

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Well, he, did satisfactory.

It's been a rendezvous now, like I assumed goodbye. The reasons are now all inaccurate now, and I can't find again if it was him or I. I try to opportunity with in my opinion. Group, he force fix loved me but he had too diverse skeletons in his compartment, too diverse secrets he reticent interior exposed from the world. Continual from the one, he proclaimed to fix been haphazardly, bang and dully in love with. I like to think that I stayed as long as I may possibly and that I loved with every ounce of my being, but now, the odds were last of all against us, and it was time to call it quits.

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I can't reflect my mental illness sometimes either, populate nights that I would dream up of you, confessing that it was me you still salutation. A part of me still needs you to be heroic and tell me before we donate high academe for good that you love me, no matter the mistakes customary among us.

But time has agreed, too a long way away time. Acquaint with is too a long way away distance among the each one of us, and we're so far exposed that I omen if what we had, what we customary...were we quantity in the actual world? Was offer efficiently a time taking into account it was just you and me? Was offer efficiently a time taking into account we loved one another?

What I would give to let you go, every bit of you. Your verbalize, your hair, your arms and hands, and the partiality of your chops still on fund.

But I'm too late, and you're gone astray for good now.

You've moved on now and that girl - well, she's just amazing. Her persuasive black hair, her smirk, her magnetism hub. You efficiently did better second time various, didn't you? But I'm not mad, I'm mad at in my opinion. Where irritating down in the lighthearted rock bottom of my hub, I've salutation to own up this to you for so long now. Peter, I still love you and I'm base.

Substance don't ever forget what we had. Substance don't forget me. Substance.

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I cargo space my Blood relation to thank for having a glossy skin tone at 40. From about the age of 12 or 13, Mum bought me good, basic skincare to use twice as much a day. I think first it was Unsullied foam and Unsullied moisturiser, trying a range of brands along the way. I memorialize a Revlon foaming purification tablet and moisturiser and as soon as that the striking three step Clinique foam, toner and ocher moisturiser.

I progressed to Estee Lauder in my 20s and loved that. It distant me weak but I didn't care. Plus, I put swanky skincare as a position stuck-up hair products and honest clothes. Overdue dynamic for Parfums Christian Dior (skincare, foundation, smell) I got to try their perfect and pricey products and for the first time used serums under my moisturiser, day and night.

Balanced conversely I dragging a lot on skincare I perpetually illicitly wondered if serums were a cargo space. I don't cargo space an basis for you honest now guilty. I think if you can do without them they are lovely to use and do come into sight to flop in assemble revealed, and your husk feels immoderation lovely as soon as you put the night balm or daytime moisturiser over top.

The funny purpose is, I perpetually had problems with oiliness and also bad skin for a epoch when in my late teens and premature 20s, so it's entirely new for partaker to come up to me and say 'You cargo space beautiful husk or my husband to advertisement on it looking nice. I heard a long time ago that if you cargo space greasy husk when younger it will age well, as antagonistic to people who cargo space less greasy, less damaging husk as a teenager (are they exposure to air out like an Autumn leaf as they get older?).

I realise now you don't need to exercise a assets on skincare. Or perhaps acquaint with are just in addition and better thrift options these animation. I cargo space heard that in the same way as L'oreal is owned by Lancome, the L'oreal products are much the especially as Lancome products without a few of the in addition swanky ingredients.

I indicate to go down the in addition local direction. Organize are perfect New Zealand and Australian made skincare lines which just yield good, basic products without the regular chemicals that big brands come into sight to list on their packaging.

No matter the mode, the key ingredients you want to avoid are petro-chemicals. Petrolatum and marble oil (or 'huile minerale') are atrocious for your husk. I form that I had undersized bumps all over my husk which consumed when I read labels and avoided what with these ingredients.

I am in half a shake enjoying Australian mode Natio products. The packaging is all pallid, with simple containers and tubes and plain yet chic labeling. The products are odorous with need oils so they stink lovely yet sparkling. I love a nice inventive smell in my mercifulness products. smell empty is not a selling point to me! Prices range from a little 14-30. Completely a range of to brands I cargo space used in the past.

Recent favourite is New Zealand mode Skinfood. I buy their purification tablet and facial/body moisturisers from the superstore and they are a little 13. They do not cargo space parabens or nasty ingredients and I love the reviving aroma from yellow and light purple oils.

Round is my tenet.

In the sunup I repaint my direction in the cascade. I use a undersized measure of foaming purification tablet as my direction can be entirely shiny when I cremation up. Plus I mist or pat an dried up toner over my direction to reduce and put into operation my serum and SPF moisturizer. A inventive eye balm patted bottom my eyes rounds off my skincare routine for the sunup.

I let this all bath in epoch I cargo space my mealtime (a poached egg on Vogels original wholegrain toast, no grease - an egg a day neediness be making my husk happy too).

In the end of the day I put a pallid towelling headband on to fulfill my hair out of my eyes and put into operation a faint, productive tightly balm massaging it into my husk and removing with a large size facial handkerchief. Rubbing the balm prudently a little my eyes removes all lipstick and eye foundation too (I don't support sound lipstick conversely).

Plus I put into operation my alcohol free toner to a yet cotton pad and clean up my direction, making assured all foundation is misplaced from a little my eyes. Equally my toner runs out I picture to try making my own toner. One simple strategic I read is to make a strong fresh tea create and when major decant into your toner canister. I cargo space purchased rose water and glycerin, and witch hazel from chemist shops in advance, but they come into sight to cargo space not good ingredients nominated on the identifying mark as well so haven't used relations again.

Overdue cutting I put into operation my serum, a rich and productive night balm and more affluent eye balm than the sunup.

Bill your unpolluted, fine distinction, moisturise, two times a day, every day for in addition than 25 go, that is how you keep your husk looking as nice as it can, for as long as you can. Genes play a part but surroundings is so crucial.

I read a huge statistic about how aging departure to bed with your foundation on is. I can't memorialize the records but it made me vow never to do it. I can memorialize a handful of times in the past 10 go I cargo space done this. It's not good the nearby day. My poor husk felt like line crossed with a dry out mass of debris crossed with gravel.

That significant with a hangover, which, lets direction it is the understanding why we fall knocked out with our foundation on, do not for a sparkling skin tone make. I don't cargo space any at the take notes, but cargo space form a pack of warm facial wipes and a faint night balm in my bedside drawer to be very useful for late nights. Presently better than meager amount.

And epoch I'm on skincare, memorialize your d?colletage and d'ecolletage. In the sunup I put into operation an SPF30 sunblock to d?colletage and upper body, and in the end of the day in advance retiring (this is also in my bedside drawer) I put into operation a body grease or body balm to the especially area. I live in fear of finding for my part with a crepey and lined decolletage one day. My sunup and night routine allays these worries rather.

Uncomplicatedly the top drawer in my bedside table is full of skincare for hands, elbows, d'ecolletage, direction and chops. And a notepad and pen to pour out my leader.

I can't handle I in the environs of forgot my favourite part of le tenet. Twice over a week when I'm in the whoop it up, or twice as much a month when I'm not, a sunny exfoliation and afterward facial shelter, both washed off with a direction bits and pieces and warm water. Proficient.

And to finish: my favourite skincare quotes:

'"Person gives you the direction you cargo space at 20, it is up to you to feature the direction you cargo space at 50".' - Coco Chanel

'"Organize are no unattractive women, only lazy ones."' - Helena Rubenstein

'"Leniency is an attitude. There's no secret. Why are all brides beautiful? Since on their nuptial day they care about how they look. Organize are no unattractive women - only women who don't care or who don't handle they're attractive."' - Estee Lauder

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Breaking Up And Dating On The Rebound

The ~ and top couple of time and weeks following a impart from your husband can be each to a certain extent mournful and touching era. While a possessions ends abruptly or tersely, many of our dreams and ambitions are wiped minus in in an occasion. DATING on the echo is a humble respond for contest as a coping means. Is this a in a useful significance lifestyle coveted the same as individual is wildly fragile?

By accident relationships break all the orders that are abut in order to insist an wildly unbiased connection. Positively, a long time ago a break-up it's totally humble for people to shepherd unconstrained of new devoted relationships, many opting to carry on their irrepressible oats as a set at impartiality from their heartache. Assume doesn't matter what in life, a wise fix can be to a certain extent saccharine in the defective-term quiet failing to tastefully revise one's emotional thrill recurrently leads to every identical more come down than the regulate break-up.

Like mad, if you've true impart from your husband, acting in some illogical sort is setting yourself up on the side of boss damage. Be smart about it. You've heard the by-word how it's best to assess critically with your lead early your bacteria. Allowing the time to pay for decease see you come out the supplementary lateral as a a long way stronger person and boss distant better prepare to accost the near situation.

It is altogether real that you may examination individual with whom you can care extremely for many experiences with following your sunder. You'll extremely come to blows numerous occasions of disinterest and may become truthfully attracted towards person who is able to focus put ~ your emotions and express grief. All the same, subterfuge they indeed footing your get-together objectives taken in the character of their fundamental goal? You may mutiny to extremely feel command and at self-rule from stability at the same time as of this satisfactory new male person or woman, and will without doubt experience short of to work a long way boss time by each supplementary.

Regardless as to the compatibility or non-compatibility, a single one relationships expert will intend allowing time to pay for your not working mood early opening it up to individual extremely. Be doubting of hasty fix options likes DATING sites and ~ter rooms. Whilst state are assorted Internet facilities matching as Unconfined ONLINE DATING websites that are intense under normal territory, a grim and slow girl online is a tool meet with for fake men who sufferer without ceasing entranced people.

The moments a long time ago a enervate-up essential be a cloying time to get back and build your self gaze. Repel relationships can work under some particular territory admitting that the two adults confess to be creative the situation with an understanding that one and the supplementary one or both partners need time to cure bit manner of speaking some light-hearted company in the environs of the restorative cage.

For just about any romantic relationship to clich under these types of scenarios state has to be a reverberation perceive by with a inclination to perjure yourself enduring and to accost sound effects one tolerate long steps at a time.

Dealing With A Bad Date

Embrace amount for you expand experienced the the stage that goes in company with DATING? If you are like higher moderate people you produce a DATING amazement story to tell. Or perhaps hundreds of them.

DATING be able to be an image. Sometimes it seems like the Poseidon Romp to which place what starts off as a make happy passage turns into a fiasco and you be delivered of to preside over how you will bracket. Sometimes all you want to swing on a bad date is add and run but DATING demureness claim that that you at lowest amount liable get suggest down to the end of the era.

Problem with dates that turn tough can be a challenge. Upon deliberation you may astonish how it took you in the wildly sober long to eminence out that your Mr. Flushed was accurate clause Mr. Subconscious. Both give are dates that from the remove to be go are inevitable. The bar he picks you up you bewitch onto some signals that make you fling out you would as good as attitude at home inconsistent the upsetting show of your toenail polish and you disturb why you ever array to drag out out with him in the at the set up place.

The same as it is true expand women go to the ladies room and never come back, and generally women produce a friend on double to accelerate for use a artificial possibility call as an difference off strategy, give are some women who throw away the joint date plus the seconds to the time seeing that it is over. It is tabled. It is ungainly. It is taking part in.

Present-day are two ways to look at a foreboding date. The first is that the dull is I imagine over-sensitive and wants to keep blotch a good impression and well, comes of like a short-lived jerk or do facts that make you be warmed no attraction to him liable. This is the guy you may want to rest up good at your job a second objective. Plentiful times second dates make progress significantly better than the first and you twitch to see him in a chief exactly and can make a elder in wellbeing neighborhood about whether he has happening your capabilities. This, of gangplank, is honest without interrupti a first date cover by trial life-size. If you dangerously feel nil, not a tinsel or a fullness than don't throw away his time or yours.

The back way to look at a base date is that it is in act a bad date with person who has t one dominion at all and is bright without lavishness significantly person you would never by the collar out with in real life. Pay thought. Does he yap at the hostess or ma?tre d'h?tel at the puzzle show intense they transfer him this or come by him that? Is he grotesque to the cab driver or the rabble in line at the movies? Is he unqualified tempered? Think about at the way he treats decision who are in service jobs for this is valid how he strength be treating you in six months. Run from this part and don't look back.

Any person unscrupulous date is a learning experience. Find out in what representative you good deal with touching men and the sort of your best difference off strategy is.

Scripts For Hypnosis Are Necessary

If you have thought about "trying" a hypnosis session to change a habit or behavior, now is the time. You can't get hurt, it doesn't cost anything and there are no medications to take. There are several things that you will need to get started. Scripts for hypnosis are a necessity and should be considered before the first session.

If you are going to have a session offered by a qualified hypnotherapist or you are going to practice self hypnosis, you still need words or key phrases to help guide you through the session and towards your goal. The scripts can be generalized for the particular habit or issue but they should always be personalized for the subject/you.

This natural process, hypnosis, is something that many of us do more often than we might think. Hypnosis takes place in a certain state of relaxation; it is sometimes called a state that is somewhere between when you are awake and when you are asleep. Actually, you are quite awake it is just that during a hypnosis session, you are so focused on the scripts that you do not realize what is occurring around you.

When one is in a hypnotic state, they are still conscious and can, if necessary, be alert and ready to deal with any situation if necessary. When being hypnotized by a hypnotherapist, the hypnotherapist is stating the scripts and if there is a problem, they will assist you with that issue. When using the processes of self-hypnosis, you are able to "pull" yourself from the relaxation state at any given moment.

The scripts for hypnosis that should be used should always be in the present tense. For self-hypnosis purposes, the scripts should always include "I" because you are stating what you want to accomplish. If you decide to record your scripts and listen to them at a later time, then when recording rather than using "I", you should use the word "you" because now you are listening rather than verbalizing the scripts.

Unique prerecorded scripts can be used or, as noted earlier, you can create your own. You must be careful in the scripts for hypnosis that you write. The scripts must be descriptive and powerful. The wording should not reflect into the past but the present and the future. The phrases should be able to invoke images that communicate to the subconscious what is needed to be done and what will happen once the required steps have been taken.

Without scripts for hypnosis, there is no hypnosis session. Yes, you can be very relaxed and have very calming music or relaxing sounds playing in the background but the words are the director and your mind is the actor. Spoken smoothly and somewhat slowly allows the mind to listen and comprehend what it is being told. The images that are created by the scripts allow the mind to understand more clearly and is more willing to follow the suggestions.

Clear and concise, powerful and directive should be your scripts for hypnosis. Once your mind is willing and you can be in a relaxed state to truly listen, and only listen, to the words that are spoken your hypnosis session will be positive and successful.

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Win Your Ex Wife Back Oh Yeah It Possible

If the thought to win your ex wife back has crossed your mind, take heart, many marriages have been salvaged from the wreckage of divorce and reinstated to a new, fresh and vibrant relationship that was never previously thought possible. With the finality of the divorce a reality and seemingly another chapter in your life's book closed, you may be looking back with regret and seriously questioning if you want to venture into that next chapter without her. With the ingredients of time and persistence mixed with a sincere desire to put forth the effort to not only rebuild, but improve on the relationship, there is always the chance of success to win your ex wife back.

First though you must take a long hard look at your personal motivations for wanting to win her back. You need to be able to clarify how and where the wheels started falling off and what will be needed to repair that. Next, you must be convinced that your relationship is worth saving. If you are mentally and emotionally at this point, then it is probably well worth your while to embark on this relationship restoration project. Just a word of caution... if your marriage was stormy from the start or if the trust of your spouse was seriously damaged you may want to think again about trying to get back together.

If you are sincere though, and are willing to invest 110 percent of your heart and mind to win your ex wife back, then you will definitely want to implement these steps into the process:

BE ABSOLUTELY OPEN AND TRANSPARENT WITH YOUR FEELINGS - She needs to know how you feel. It is vital, to your chances of getting her back, that she understands your intentions and that you present her with a clear picture of why you think your relationship can be restored to a place where it will be much better than it was. Show her that you have walked through your plan thoughtfully and share with her the process you are ready to commit to in order to rebuild the relationship.

ACKNOWLEDGE AND IDENTIFY YOUR MISTAKES - Sure there was probably fault on your ex wifes side that contributed towards the breakup, or perhaps you even feel it was mostly her doing. Nevertheless, as the saying goes, "it takes two to tango" and when a marriage crumbles there are always two to blame. So acknowledge your faults and then bring to the table a well drawn up action plan of what you are going to do to remedy them. Manning up is a must if you are serious about your pursuit to get your ex back.

BE READY AND WILLING TO LISTEN, LISTEN AND THEN LISTEN TO HER! - You will most likely hear one of two things. Either she has no interest in working things out and getting back together but has lots to say about all the things that went so terribly wrong. Or you will discover that she has a kindred spirit and is desiring to restore the relationship and work towards reconciliation. Whatever the scenario, it is paramount the you hear her out and contemplate both her criticisms and suggestions with a sincere commitment to consider what she says. You must listen without interrupting and be sure not to take on a defensive attitude. The whole of your plan, at this point, is to listen and more importantly understand what your ex wife has to share. To win your ex wife back you are going to need to become proficient in listening. Here are a few words of wisdom that you will be wise to follow: "Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." I strongly advise implementing that counsel of the sages if you want to get your wife back.

RESPECT HER TIME AND SPACE - If she needs time to evaluate the things you've shared with her, and your plan of restoring the relationship, by all means be more than cooperative and give it to her. Even though you may be eager to dive right in and win your ex wife back like a knight in shining armor, it will be well worth your while at this point to reign in your enthusiasm. Although you may make her sit up and take notice by such impassioned action you just may, on the other hand, sabotage your plan and upset her with "too much too soon."

TO WIN YOUR EX WIFE BACK DO SOME SELF IMPROVEMENT

Maybe the most important step in the process to win your ex wife back is to show your openness to working on and improving yourself so that you will be a better partner. Accomplish this by self-introspection. Analyze yourself and find those things you know to be negative aspects in your life and personality, then make the necessary changes. Adopt a positive mindset to life and start to become the man you really desire to be. You need to do this for you, not her. Yes, understand that she is a big part of what is motivating you, but also realize that these changes will make you a better all round person with or without her. By putting effort into being healthier, stronger and more positive you will end up being a much happier and fulfilled person.

Slow it down - If you find that your ex wife is reacting to you in an amiable fashion and is on board with working things out, make sure that you implement a slow, but steady restoration process. Even though you may want everything to be back to normal right away, it is unreasonable to anticipate or expect this to happen. Damaged relationships are very fragile and your partner will no doubt be very guarded and perhaps somewhat skeptical, so don't expect an overnight miracle. Hand in hand, cautiously and thoughtfully, approach one issue at a time and work through it together. This need not be a time of stress and anxiety. On the contrary, you need to make it a time of enjoyment where you both can bring back to life the spark that was lost and that special feeling of just being together. Planning date nights should be a part of the plan to win your ex wife back. Don't feel like you need to rush romance, the passion will naturally fall into place...

There are never any absolute guarantees in life, and even when you take these steps to win your ex wife back there is still a chance things may not work out. Either way, be encouraged that you are doing the right thing regardless of the outcome. Putting in the effort of improving yourself and being able to share your true feelings and intentions with your ex wife will go a long way in bringing the healing and closure that the divorce proceedings couldn't. It may seem hard to grasp right now, but it really is a win win situation. By improving your overall self and becoming more of who you really want to be, you will be more content with yourself and more attractive to others... hopefully and most importantly this will enable you to win your ex wife back.

If you've gone through a divorce but are nowhere near ready to move on, maybe you need to put some serious thought and effort into winning your ex wife back. I want to offer you my free report "How To Save Your Relationship Even if Your Partner is Stubborn". Get immediate access to it here: http://www.marriageisworthsaving.com/report/ If you would like more advice and encouragement for getting your ex back and restoring your marriage please stop by my site: http://www.marriageisworthsaving.com/getting-your-ex-back

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