How To Talk To A Girl When She Is Angry

How to be absolutely controlled when she is creating hell for you!

Facts: A girl will always problems, if not with you, then with her friends, if not with her friends, then with her ex-boyfriends, if not with her ex-boyfriends then it would be her friends' problems. So either you have a lot of time and no job, or especially a job with no creativity and hopes for you, you're in for a treat because her problems would never end. But if that is not the case, then:

1) BE A LISTENER. (IN ANOTHER WORDS, DON'T BOTHER TO GIVE YOUR ADVICE OR SOLVE HER PROBLEMS - THEY DON'T HAVE AN END AND WILL KEEP COMING)

The secret behind this is to not apply your mind into her problem, because if you do that, a solution will come into your head and you are going to spill it out. The two possibilities that follow after that are either she is going to take the solution or she won't, the latter of which, is what majorly happens.

2) Try using words that show love and comfort ONLY. (forget the solution of the problem)

The thing that greatly affects a girl is care. If she is in a dilemma, and you become Mr.right telling her what she should do or and what not, it won't be as much effective as a guy simply being quiet, and telling her to let go of the anger and relax. Use her anger to isolate her, and link her with you only. For example: If you are a friend/ boyfriend: GUY: Listen, there are two ways to look at this; one is to look from your eyes, in which I see anger, wrath and revenge to some extent. And there are many solutions I can provide you with, but then there is another way, to look at it from my eyes, and what I see is: all this anger, problems, issues causing you much more trouble, robbing you of your calm, of your smile. How is this anger useful when it is hurting you only?

I need you to think about all the good things, things that make you happy, your dog? ("girls love their dogs, and say its name, don't say 'dog'"), us, I mean come on, we are two awesome people, your parents? You are surrounded by good things.

(POST YOUR RELATIONSHIP/ DATING PROBLEMS FOR DETAILED SOLUTION WITHIN 12 HOURS)

Reference: aisha-vip.blogspot.com