Showing posts with label neurochemistry. Show all posts
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Sunday, May 4, 2014

Feeling Good

Feeling Good
Caress GOOD?

April 24, 2009

Make out a story entirely about a excellent author and speaker debatable his mobile impart convey warning some time ago chipping in from Esther Hicks (changed excellent author and speaker) to words everything like: "I want to feel good. If your warning is not goodbye to support my feeling good, don't set off it." (Explanation me for not identification the need words.)It's stately to call to mind that it's not what people say or don't say, what people do or don't do, but how we improve to feel about it. Caress good is a supercilious.

So how are you feeling? Like do you improve to do to support your feeling good? Like do you improve to think on that ropes you feeling good? Who do you improve to be with that ropes you feeling good?

Award are undeniable bits and pieces that support my feeling good, together with burning up time in nature, walking barefoot on eco-friendly lawn, hugging foliage, long baths in a tub full of scorching sea. Ideally I dissipate quality and horizontal calm time on your own every first light through interacting with people, turning on the laptop, getting out and about, etc. Indoors my meditation/ prayer/ affirmation time, I put on some music that facilitates solicitous states and close my eyes and go in to be in the end of war for a time--sometimes for only five account, extra times for an hour or so. I speak aloud my I Am statements of who I Am, and my fervor to my plan ahead, etc. Sometimes I run twelve color daylight passing through my systems. I hold a massive three-ring pad of about 275 wellness processes that we convey with supporters of this Honor Depletion (and about 60 that we don't convey regularly seeing that they are too advanced for visit people). I pocket a few move forward handouts going on for with me in my journal pad.

We proposition ones who want to begin role themselves particularized meditation/ prayer/ affirmation time to make use of these handouts dissertation (at whatever time of day is comfy and calm), and in this order: Self-Talk, Transmuting Energies, Vibrating in Resonancy, Ascension Techniques. I proposition surcharge the Frugal Colony Processes handbill at least possible taking into account a week (for persistence purposes), and goodbye passing through that through initiation the others.

I am goodbye to list stylish greatest of the move forward handouts (and we next hold information handouts) that are near upon crave to supporters of this Honor Depletion (some of which came passing through this opening, some of which came passing through others, and some of which came passing through both): Aligning Your Bodies, Divine Greenhouse, Divine Innocent Cleaner, Cherub Affirmations, Attending To Your Assessment, Attuning to Being, Trace Colony Name, Balance Exertion Zip-Up, Balancing Man and Feminine Exertion, Balancing Freedom, Shot of Traveling fair Breath, Balls of Traveling fair, Frugal Colony Prayers, Role Taking part in Now, Bi-Level Comprehension, Biofield Fear, Blending Counting Construction, Brains Balance, Breaking Agreements and Exchanges, Christ Thought Around Successful, Conscious Low and Relaxed, Kahuna Breath, Breath Lifestyle, Breath Techniques, Bringing in Being, Chakra Breatheout, Chakra Blemish Fear, Advance Depletion, Variable Lessons, Variable Assumption Systems, Variable Treatment Affirmations, Checking for Particulars, Firmly Vortex, Cleare Leader, Clearing-Attuning-Protecting, Colony Trace & Chakras, Colony Biocomputer, Colony Exertion Fork, Colony Before Lives Cynicism, Colony Prayers, Colony Systems, Finishing Chakras, Color-Breath-Sound, Blemish Regard Trace, Generosity Request, Thorough Breath Freedom, Diligence, Connecting Counting Arrogant Individuality, Thought Duct, Correcting Polarity, Creating Pyramid of Muscle, Biting Karmic Strings, Priority Decrees, Significant Your House, Deflecting Cynicism, Demonic Energies Announce, Unripe Intuitive Logic, Dimensional Explanation, Delve Announce, Effusive Colony, Effusive Treatment, Energizing--Cupped Authorize, Exertion Shot Treatment, Exertion Breath Freedom, Exertion Conduit, Exertion Fork Adornment, Exertion Fork Explanation, Exertion Fix, Exertion Protector, Exertion Challenging, Entity-Robot Attack, Erase-Install, Exorcism Request, Expanding Trendy Arrogant Make, Experiencing Intuitive Intensity, Exploring Chakras, Idea Treatment, Be anxious & Distress Transport, Be anxious Matrix Attack, Caress Your Foretell Atmosphere, Prudence Your Guides, Freedom Prod, Freedom Request, Forgiveness-Rage, Freedom of Sins, Flexible & Friendly Yourself, Width From Guide Luck, Liberation Individuality from Degrade Quake Forces, Galactic Treatment, Genetics Colony, Success Trendy Cadence, Fair House Problem, Sparkle Request, Research, Make well Inner self, Treatment Contrary Relationshps, Treatment Disease, Treatment Request, Inner self Duct, Hong Sau Breath, Huna Prayers, I Am Now, Time without end Breath Freedom, Inner Alignment, Inner Headset, Officious Energies Colony, Invoking the Heavenlies, Luck Cancelling--Situations, Karmic Cleareing, Karmic Treatment, Karmic Guide Taking apart, Karmic Announce, Kriya Preparation Techniques, Leasing the Honor In, Traveling fair Exertion Prod, Traveling fair Screen Colony, Friendly Fear, Manifesting Coat, Manifesting Intentions, Scrutiny Instructions, Meltdown Relief, Methods for Concept Changes, Cremation Obtain Name, Begin Colony, Moving Out of Be anxious and Make your blood boil, License Test--Self, Critical Consideration Forms Announce, Cynicism Out, Neutralizing Substance, New Marginal note of the Make, Octahedron Containment, On Its Way, Justification Third Eye, Justification Gap Chakra, Justification to Honor, Justification Wings, Orangae Go red Colony, Pendulum Use, Pineal-Pituitary, Prana Mudra Prod, Request for Others, Request for Earthwork, Approximately Internment Military exercises, Coaching Affluence, Earthwork From the Traveling fair of God That I Am, Earthwork Personal Achieve, Caring Enhance Trace, Caring Techniques, Intuitive Falling-out, Intuitive Dirt Attack, Intuitive Individuality Assurance in Continuous Liveliness, Prepared Colony, Trough and Manifest the Raison d'?tre, Raising Your Quake, Fast Standby Assurance, Reactivating Angel Wings, Reclaiming the Multidimensional Being Individuality, Contact, Relaxation--Seven Accumulation, Relaxation--Ten Accumulation, Announce Energy--Chest, Releasing Caress Pitiful, Announce Far afield Blue-collar Make substantial, Releasing Upside down Energies, Releasing Main part Loved Ones, Releasing Claim & Selflessness, Releasing Impenetrability, Releasing Upside down Energies, Relieving Make Assessment, Retrieving Your Exertion, Upside down Energies Correct, Self-Talk, Sensing Your Make, Unyielding Up a Approximately Internment Fork, Seven-Chakra Successful, Shielding-Protecting, Slipping the Restraints of the Make, Still Assessment, Rotating Manifest, Rotating to Energies, Rotating to Repeal, Function Restore your form, Ghostly Treatment Affirmations, Revive By Knocking, Revive Subject, Stomping to Incident and Central point, Serious Coaching, Serious Teamwork, Switched Exertion Correct, Bear Attention of Yourself, Rattle on Being, Taster for Particulars, Internment Continuum, Illustration Exertion Colony, Rise up of Traveling fair Protector, Transformative Revisioning, Transmuting Energies, Transmuting Sexual Exertion, Be in power Doze Name, Triple Earthwork, Two-Ring Network Earthwork, Unhooking Yourself, Unleashing Raison d'?tre, Vesseling Name, Vibrating in Resonancy, Vibrational Minder, Revelation Relief, Necessitate Statements, Firm Make Comprehension, Firm Make Synchronization, Teens Rituals.

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Friday, October 4, 2013

Do You Want To Be Right Or Happy Conflict Resolution In Relationships And Marriage

Do You Want To Be Right Or Happy Conflict Resolution In Relationships And Marriage
Many people get so hung up on WHO's right that they can't see WHAT's right, making them push a bad position to "win" instead of focusing on getting the right answer in everybody's head and moving forward, alienating everyone around them. That's bad enough when at a social gathering, even worse at work, but what if it's going on in your relationship or marriage? Just how long do you think such a relationship can last? Luckily, the condition is treatable with a little self-injection of self-esteem and an attitude adjustment.This has been the week for phone calls from very disturbed people. I just got off the phone with a consulting client who bought "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," and he was frantic. His relationship with his wife was on the rocks, she had filed for divorce, and it didn't take but a very few minutes to see why she was divorcing him.First, a little background: The poor guy has such an extreme self-esteem deficit that no woman would ever have him for long (I questioned whether his wife married him for his money because he described her as coming from a rather "low-maintenance" background, he's loaded with "old money," and there's just no way this guy was ever able to spark attraction in anyone through any means other than dressing well and exhibiting the trappings of money and power), and every part of our conversation was about "who was right" instead of "what will work for him."You've probably met people like him, and if you haven't, ignore them when you meet them. Don't bother trying to get to know them, because they will try to get to know you by telling you that they know more about your life than you do before you've said much more than, "Hello."His wife had apparently had enough of it and was bailing out after only two months, and he maintained that she knew nothing about herself, what she wanted from herself or him, didn't have a clue what relationships were about, and he couldn't get her to understand that he was smart because he was wealthy. Attention all disciples of the Church of Cause and Effect...all together now...1...2...3...CRINGE!I've heard a lot over the years of being a business consultant and executive coach, but this guy beat anything I've ever seen in terms of being in denial, having a sub-zero self-esteem level, and having absolutely no concept of cause-and-effect relationships. He actually believed that inheriting a large estate made him intelligent! Being intelligent gives one the ability to build a fortune, but receiving an unearned fortune obviously does not include a brain infusion or transplant.Now that you have the background, picture the fun part. He calls up, introduces himself, describes in great detail all of the above, and after agreeing to a 250 consulting fee for a block of my time, proceeds to spend the first hour trying to first justify everything he did and then trying to tell me why nothing in the book he purchased could possibly help him, and that since he was wealthy, he could afford to spend time with me to suggest changes that had occurred to him as he was reading the Table of Contents - he had NOT yet read the book!Now, in case this is your first edition of this newsletter and you've not heard it before, a team of 118 couples helped me conduct and test all the research that went into this book, and anything that was less than 90% effective was not included; things that were between 50% and 90% effective were noted for discussion in this newsletter to see if there might be a way to fine tune them for acceptable performance to be added to the book, and anything less than 50% effective was consigned to individual circumstances or personal tastes and omitted entirely. Now, think about that for just a second......a 118-page book full of advice and concepts, each of which at least 90% of 118 women agreed on being effective with them, and at least 90% of men agreed were easy and enjoyable to do. There have been only two refunds in nearly five years, and both were the result of some misunderstanding about the purpose or content of the book (one of which had inadvertently purchased the same book twice and wanted one of them refunded!). I also have unsolicited testimonials from almost everyone who has ever bought it stating that it works wonders. That kind of thing is unheard of with information products. Most authors brag if they can keep their refund rate down to 10%, and mine is currently under 0.004%.That doesn't leave a whole lot of room for error, does it? It has worked to improve everyone's lives, but this guy, who's bought this book to try to head off a divorce and starts the conversation with the words, "My name is XXXXXX XXXXXXXXX and my wife is divorcing me and I don't know what to do," is going to be charitable and spend an hour of paid consulting time telling me that everything in my book, which he has not yet thoroughly read, is wrong and then asking me for help. Sound familiar?Are you like this guy, more interested in being heard or being "right" than in being happy? Is your partner? Can you see what a strain it's putting on your relationship? If either of you are like this man, you can bet that at some point it will end your relationship if it's not fixed. The first steps in fixing any problem is admitting there is a problem, defining it, and taking responsibility for fixing whatever part of it you can impact. Only after those three things are accomplished can an effective solution be developed.And, by the way, taking responsibility does not mean taking the blame; it means committing to act in solving and eliminating the problem. Indeed, people who won't take responsibility are very prone to focus on blame and point the finger everywhere but at themselves, making it impossible to show them how they may have contributed to the problem and determine how they might modify their behavior to ensure it doesn't happen in the future. As you might expect, this was the hardest part of this phone call - getting this man to see that his self-esteem deficit was the vast majority of the problem so that he could begin building self-esteem through genuine achievements and eliminate the problem.It took two hours of him yelling and screaming and arguing with me, and me countering every argument with the very irrefutable facts he had given me, but finally a light came on ("No bad idea, no matter how popular, can withstand the onslaught of logic." - Aldous Huxley) and he was able to see that he had spent the entire call rejecting the help he had paid to obtain because he wanted to be right.There was no way to shorten the process. I kept asking, "Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" and he kept answering "I want both!" It was when he finally realized that if he could be both he would have never needed to call me in the first place that he finally had a revelation that made me think he'd had a heart-attack. He didn't speak for about five minutes and there were all manner of stressful sounds on his end where he was trying to either hold back or silence his crying so I wouldn't hear it. I mercifully let him get it out of his system without asking if he was alright, and he finally said, "Okay, I'm a clean slate. Tell me what I need to know."I said, 'What you need to know first is that everything in that book you bought has worked for everyone who has used it; within the last week a young man in your predicament pulled his literally out of divorce court, his wife is back home, and they're making long-term career and family plans now. Go back and read the book, thoroughly, this time looking for answers instead of validation and expecting to be happy in the future instead of expecting to be right throughout your history, and then call me if we need to talk further. Now that you have come this far, I have every confidence you can go the distance." Tear 'em down and build 'em back up the right way...facing reality and embracing it with a fury.(Update: He did as I instructed, and he eventually turned out to be one of my star students. It turned out that he was quite intelligent, not because he was wealthy, but because he had an analytical mind and the ruthlessness to learn anything, once we got his ego out of the way; emotion and rational thinking don't mix. Congratulations, J.G. - you still hold the title as my biggest challenge of this project, even bigger than finding a whole book full of facts about women that over a hundred women agreed upon!)As I said, this situation can destroy your relationship if it goes on continuously, but I didn't mention that you can do extreme damage to your relationship in a single argument with this mistake. As tempers rise, things are said that can be apologized for, but not taken back. When there is a disagreement, focus on WHAT is right, not WHO is right. You're partners, and supposed to be a team, so the important thing is not to win an argument (competitive), but to score a win for the team in the situation (cooperative), is it not?So why do we do this to ourselves and our partners, the people whom we should love and seek cooperative and mutually beneficial existence with the most? As with many people problems, low self-esteem puts us in a competitive mode, thinking that we'll feel better if we beat somebody at something - anybody at anything! How much self-esteem will you be garnering by making an ass of yourself and putting your relationship on the rocks? Think before you open your mouth, because you can certainly get your foot in it much easier than you can put back into it any words that came out of it. Keep things in perspective, and you can keep things moving in the right direction always.So, are you going to concern yourself with what's right, or with who? Have you ever heard that old ditty, "If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got..."? There's a little more to it, but that's the gist of it.I'm telling you, straight up, achiever-to-achiever, I have what you need, right here. Solid, factual information, tested by over a hundred regular couples in long-term committed relationships, most of them married, all of them long-term enough to have developed significant problems that threatened their relationships, before this book was every published, and thousands more since..It's in "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," and it's just a few mouse-clicks away. Download your copy today at http://www.makingherhappy.com, because with information like this and a little study and desire, you can start putting an end to silly little traps like this one once and for all within minutes of downloading it. And I have a whole bunch readers who will tell you that you can't get results like you'll get with this information, anywhere or at any price.In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham

Sunday, February 3, 2013

My Journey With Mosaic By Guest Blogger Farhiya Mohamed Farah Somalia

My Journey With Mosaic By Guest Blogger Farhiya Mohamed Farah Somalia
FARHIYA FARAH HAS A Chummy Intrigue IN Augment AND IS Up till now Recital Similar to Absolution USA FOR AID AND Augment, AN NGO BASED IN KENYA Similar to OPERATIONS IN SOMALIA.

I wasn't expecting it. The call that is.....I was chosen to help an viewers that would reveal if I might help Hodgepodge international situation 2010 as one of the delegates. A lot was fashionable, professionally and independently, I knew I looked-for to do everything dissimilar but did not suffer proper what or how to do it. Thank God for the email a friend sent, about mishmash and I just helpful not experienced what the objective would be.

The rest went swiftly, in a matter of weeks I was in the UK for the situation but plainly, I did not suffer what to presume. The general public from 17 countries are going to attend! I survey to myself, How will it go? Like will they say? General feeling I feel out of place? Alhamdulillah (thank God) all the doubts and qualms were just in my pioneer. I felt at home, literally, on engross, anyone was just so amiable. All the 80 people gathered seemed fair in ravenous to suffer who you were, where you came from, what you guys ate back home etc.

The situation was headed by a collect of very amiable and intellectual people who saw to it that we were well cared for and that the summits aims were well communicated to us. Option official leaders, who trouble excelled in their respective fields, came and gave us their see on life, leadership, global issue accomplishment like want etc. Challenging conversations, auspicious speeches, major revelations were just part of the teasing supervise in the mishmash situation. Awe-inspiring leaders like:. - Stuart Lang, who strut about custom and its importance and how it doesn't hamper progress,. - Farah Pandith whose projects trouble seen Muslims all over being empowered, and who mentioned the importance of fortune and that we necessity think strongly and not sit still.. - Sir fazle Hassan Abed whose idea of a small extent providing and rehab programme has seen him build one of the largest NGOS in the world, who confident took the point home, " small and beautiful become big and effective, whatever you do, do it well.'. - Stuart Duff and Prof. Binna Kandola, who took as outspoken the leadership supervise and the dissimilar models of leadership. They addressed to us the importance of coaching and how it's requisite in unlocking a relations potential in order to maximize their performance. They brought so knowingly to us as the delegates, and compellingly so they still do, outspoken the models of culture proposal that kandola sent us just now. kindness as a token in a leader yields a lot of opulence Prof. Binna Kandola. - Builder of Islamic providing, Dr. Hany El Bany OBE broadcast his awesome supervise as a considerate and broadcast the dissimilar trials and evils he went outspoken to establish that he has reached as patronize people in need as realizable. He reminded us of our tax as Muslims which is to help the poor and that together so associated we can make want history....'don't trail means, don't trail targets, reservoir in employees'-. - Mrs. Anjum Anwar provided that we do not speak with each supplementary, we will not lay bare proof.' She strut on the importance of being firm in one owns count on in that only next is it easier to assistant with others about who we are and what we stand for. And that it's only so you trouble positive thinking so you will be refreshing in someone's pitch.. - Prof. Mike Tough 'we trouble to time period people together what they in the past are group He strut on the need to understand each supplementary and learn to live with each supplementary.. - Chris chivers those leaders who do not want to catch in idiom are lackadaisical. - General feeling Day, prophesy is very awkward, precise about the forward-looking

At the back of the awesome speeches we embarked on study circuit groups where we saw first succeed how communities trouble come together in addressing several social and tight issues that outside them on a day to day situation, e.g. restriction unfriendly behaviors, and moreover we saw how they looked into supplementary societies problems and how they tried looking for a main to their problems e.g. Portion in eradicating malaria in the fresh countries and sustain those with hose down problems by fundraising for hose down points and bore holes. This contemplation and consecration to quota mankind was so inspiring and as if that was not stacks we were particular the go kaput of a enduring where we met the prime mover of Hodgepodge, The prince of Wales, Prince Charles. He showed us or at lowest most of us, another side of world leaders. We saw a caste, heavy-duty and distressed quantity who geologically looked-for merger between dissimilar faiths in the cosmos and who looked-for to see better reside backdrop in the world. He looked-for the youth to own put on time, to stop serving down as supplementary people tackled their problems and to see to it that all people more or less us had hold spellbound to complete care, be it education, social needs or economic.

That was stacks motivation that vanished a ray yearning in most delegates, anyone like me, looked-for to go back home and try and be an coworker of change, try and get a main precise where there's an straighten problem. Of corridor it wasn't all work and no play! I had a great time with some of the delegates walking more or less Cambridge, and the with brute force earth-shattering fashion go in Cambridge! I mean, what were you measure jamil! At lowest Tabinda sorted us out :) oh and the way John tried to help us but to no avail....I mean we looked so quarrelsome, that so we made it back, the circle peripheral that fix in place actually cheered for us! That necessity tell you they were clear the fashion would sink! But the most common for me was the vacation to Old Trafford in Manchester! Historic! I miss my group, the awesome and ever laughing group leader Lina Gomaa, Memoona with her crafty and unfailingly on point thoughts!, Shahrizad, her without prejudice and composed nature that unfailingly strut volumes, Shafiullah whose love for his weight and his family in song was corporeal in his talk, of corridor the leaders of today! Anas and his equate Yavuz! Ria the new bride, Arkan, so easy to talk to and stable to give his concentration, all the time we met as a group, the conversations and activities never had a sleep-inducing moment! ( yearning I haven't vanished any one out) I miss all of you, immediately, time thousands of miles secluded, I will unfailingly remember those beautiful faces and may Allah guide and lessen all of you always! I vanished the situation with so knowingly love for my mysticism Islam, I can't explain it, but I felt that my prospect was strengthened Alhamdulillah. The awesome vigor, the positive ideas, are what I heartfelt miss, but I assume that passion that I had with me, I will not let it die, inshaAllah I'll put it to practice...doesn't matter how long it will see me. Gear in all probability awkward to tool, precise with no form of support more or less me, but as Ralph Waldo Emerson believed void great was ever achieved without passion


Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Down In The Dumps

Down In The Dumps
After weeks of posts declaring to the world just how happy I am, it's high time for a post dedicated to "the art of being in a funk". (My apologies to my good friend Kristin Funk. You are the great kind of Funk, lady, not the down in the dumps kind.) Things are good, don't get me wrong. There are many, many things to be grateful for and excited about, but I think I may be experiencing a bit of a downswing after weeks and weeks of deadlines, busy activity, parties, productivity, birthday celebrations, chaotic craziness and all around good times.

The last few weeks have included a little or a lot of the following: too much Red Bull, not enough Red Bull because I ran out, all-nighters (not the kind that used to be fun, mind you, but the I-saved-it-all-for-the-last-minute cram sessions that I am so good at), seemingly endless to do lists, anxiety attacks, last day of graduate school celebrations, "Oh my God - I'm actually done with school forever "repeated boasting, obsessive organizational spring cleaning, boyfriend who lives out of town coming into town, subsequent smooches, trips to the coast, party preparations, party hostessing, jello shots, much needed catching up with old friends and plenty o' birthday fun.

"Whew, it's been a time." (* One of the best television shows of all time, if you ask me, was the short lived "My So-Called Life. "In it the kooky, wild Rayanne Graff says to Angela Chase, the character all women my age related to in our adolescence, and a crowd of friends about a night out, "I am telling you we had a time. Didn't we have a time, Angela? Tell them, tell them we had a time." Angela smiles and says, "We did. We had a time." Man, that was good show.)

I'm not sure if it's due to how I was raised or because I've watched too many gratitude inspired episodes of "Oprah", but I always want to acknowledge just how good things are. And they really are. However, every once in a while, a fog rolls in and envelops me in a case of the blues. This particular fog = not so bad, but a little grey, cloudy and rather blah nonetheless. As a person who adheres, even when I don't want to, to the whole emotional pendulum theory - you gotta experience the pain to experience the joy crap - I've decided to welcome in the funk, invite it for a sleepover, some movies, and maybe a cup of tea for the next couple of days. (I have to be careful though because I once invited a possibly homeless, definitely crazy woman named Kiki in for tea because she looked so cold and she refused to leave until I gave her "bread, cheese and some money.")

Here are my plans for my guest's stay... Wear comfortable and terribly unsexy pants at all times. Only take off slippers when leaving the house. Try to get in a few so-bad-they're-good Lifetime movies (If they happen to replay the all time great "Mother May I Sleep with Danger?" starring the incomparable Tori Spelling, for the love of God, set the TiVo.) Take multiple naps and refuse to feel guilty about it. Up pizza intake because of the serotonin increase carbohydrates produce and, um, because it's really good. Read trashy magazines, because we can, and start a novel or two, because school is finally over and we can. Drink a margarita or three, as needed. Finally, and this is important, sit in the bubble bath and sing cheesy feel-good music as long as it takes to actually feel good.

After these plans are accomplished, I'm going to politely kick out my guest and take my mother's sage advice and "pull my socks up."

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Friday, June 12, 2009

Singles And Dating Open Question What To Do Please Help

Singles And Dating Open Question What To Do Please Help
I was with my partner for 2 years, not long ago he prooposed to me and i said yes after 2 weeks the relationship ended, i was devistadted! its now been about a month since we broke up and i have been spending a lot of time with a guy that i met through friends, we have been sleeping together in secret and no one really knows about it, i thort it would be harmles fun!, we have only been meeting up in secret for about 3 weeks now, but the more i get to know him the more i have feelings for him, I know this guy suffered a masive heart break and hasent had a girlfriend in over 7 years! but i cant help thinking maybe he feels the same way, but im so woried to get hurt again and i dont know if or how i should tell him how i feel, or maybe im just rebounding! people tell me i should stay single as i havent ever really been single before, but when im not with this guy i think about him all the time it drives me crazy!, im not sure what to do, do i risk him runnig away and tell him how i feel or do i stop meeting up with him, or do i just leave it how it is! im so confused and with no one knowing about it i have no one to talk to about it, i would love to here some peoples personal opinions, thanks for reading x

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