Speed Dating Dos And Donts

So you're going speed dating? It's surprising how this old school method of meeting women still thrives in this age of modern technology. In fact, it is even more surprising how you end up finding a good girl to date with a really quick exchange of questions and answers.

Sure speed dating does not come with a promise of 100% efficiency, but what the hell, it's more efficient than sitting down and waiting for Cupid to act on your love life! Speed dating is all about taking chances and probable opportunities.

Speed dating is all about potentials, chances, opportunities. Since we're talking of speed here, here are some easy ways on how to ask her out. It is never only about finding one person you'd want to date. It's about getting that chance to meet as many women at once. It takes away the pressure and awkwardness of a blind date, and is generally more economical because you don't need the whole week and your whole paycheck to meet seven different girls.

To make the most out of your speed dating experience, here are some do's and don'ts to follow:

DO'S:

* Do prepare a small sheet of generic questions that you can ask all the girls. And be prepared to answer questions. I'm pretty sure she's going to ask about your hobbies. Learn what men hobbies women like so you can relate your hobbies to them, if they aren't your hobbies yet.

* Do make follow up questions.

* Do listen intently to their answers. You sure don't want to miss out on the most interesting details so give each girl all your attention.

* Do show up looking your best. You're in there to meet girls and the opportunities are twice or thrice as much as the chances you get in a bar or on a date.

* Relax. There's nothing to fear and no one's going to shoot you in the head with a shotgun if you come out without a date after the event.

* Do it with friends. Speed dating is always a case of 'the more the merrier'. Some of the girls also came with their friends. It would be a great opportunity for a future group date. (Plus, it would make it less frightening for you when your friends are around you.

* Have fun. Don't think too much about how badly you did with one girl and enjoy every other girl you get to meet. Having fun, being relaxed - these will all show in the way you talk with the girls.

DON'TS:

* Don't be too serious. Speed dating is supposed to be fun so save the story of the Hero Dog for some other time.

* Don't give out too much personal information. Speed dating is only one step ahead of internet dating. Don't divulge too much information for your own safety.

* Don't linger. Leave some mystery, and leave some room for other girls in your mind. Don't make a final decision until after you've met the last girl in line.

* Don't talk too much about yourself. Unless you want to come off as an arrogant douchebag, give enough opportunities for you and the girl to talk and actually get to know each other. And for your own security, don't give too much information.

* Don't ask stupid question. You'll get stupid answers.

* Don't use your phone. You're wasting time and opportunities telling the world about the event over actually enjoying the whole thing.

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