How To Ask Women Out On Dates

Asking a woman out is a little different from approaching a woman. You could know a woman for a long time but the thought of asking her out may have your heart pounding out of your chest. The reason why you have this fear is because you are bridging a gap from just talking to women to actually getting a little person with a woman. Approach women may have gotten easy for you now but pretty soon you need to let the women know you want to spend one-on-one time with them. The thought of asking a woman out and her saying no will make things a little different between you. Or will it? I'm gonna explain why you want to ask a woman out ASAP rather than wait for months, or even years.

* Women are approached by men on a consistent basis. The hotter she is, the less likely you'll get a chance to get with her before another man swoops in and takes her away from you. If you wait too long out of fear, there will be a man who may be more attractive than you, who has more confidence than you, and doesn't waste time like you, will ask her out as soon as he meets her within that day. If she says yes, you'll have to wait to see if they hit it off or not before you get a chance. If you ask her out while she's with a man who has way more confidence and way better-looking than you, she will definitely reject you.
* Unless the woman is highly attracted to you, the longer you wait, the more likely you'll end up in the friend zone because you are too shy and beating around the bush. Even if a man is not that attractive, he will have better success with women if he is confident and more direct with what he wants. A lot of women may say no, but he will get more dates because he's not wasting any precious time. The more time you waste, the more likely the woman will put you in the friend zone. It's better to ask sooner than later.
* As time passes, you'll regret all the opportunities you've passed up out of fear. If you never asked a woman out but later on find out that she liked you, but now she is getting married, you'll want to beat yourself up for being such a wuss. At least if the woman said no you'll know, but not knowing is just as bad as getting rejected... maybe even worse. Passing up on something you really want and could definitely get, if you just asked, will make you feel like crap in the end. There are many men who had women have crushes on them while they had a crush on them. Later on, they find out and start kicking themselves for too being afraid to ask them out.

The best way to ask a woman out is in the initial encounter. Don't waste time out of fear. If you're comfortable talking to women, it's time to start getting comfortable asking women out on dates. These dates could be a simple as a walk in the park and eating a hot dog and pretzel. You don't need to take her to fancy restaurants. You don't need to take her on a dream date. All you need to do is spend a little time with her one-on-one. If she can enjoy your company without any extras like gifts and expensive meals, that means she likes you and can go out with you again. All you need to do is say, "Do you have any plan? I would like to take you out to... " From there you let her accept or decline. If she says no, then move on to another girl. Maybe it's not right for her in the moment and she may come around another day.

Source: datingforaverageguys.blogspot.com