Conversation Opener Approaching Beautiful Women

The purpose of an opener is not getting her phone number or impressing her. during this phase you should focus on creating a social connection between you and the group of people your target is in. You must be shocking, make them get out of their world and join youSo let's see what an Alpha Male does and doesn't do:

You spot a "10, blonde hair, blue eyes, long legs. A very beautiful girl.

You walk up to her and...

YOU: "Hey"

HER: "Hi"

YOU: "So... do you come here often?"

HER: "No."

YOU: "Oh, I see..."

Notice how this conversation isn't going anywhere? Try this:

YOU: "Hey"

HER: "Hi"

YOU: "Wow you're a 10!"

HER: Heh thanks. (thinking "omg another loser, how will I get this one lost as fast as possible?")

YOU: "Ehm... at a closer look I say a 7..."(Neg)

HER: "What?!? How dare you !(knowing that she is a 10 her confidence level is sky high)

YOU: Oh well don't worry 7 is a good mark ! (gently pat her on her shoulder sincerely expressing the fact that you are not impressed, in pick up literature this is called a NEG - negative hit)

And here you are, you opened the girl and demonstrated higher value that most guys by showing that you are not impressed at all by her looks.

After all let's be honest, approaching women isn't that easy. It can be awkward, embarrassing, and downright difficult. But, like most things in life, if you know what you are doing, it's easier. If you really want to become an Alpha Male, you need to practice.

When approaching women you should concentrate on the following things :

The first and most important rule is to open as fast as possible, not allowing your mind to start asking stupid questions and destroy the little confidence you have. Start to pick up women right when you enter the venue or as fast as possible, and make sure nobody conceives you as being alone because it lowers your social value. Even if you don't have a specific target right from the start never sit with your beer in front of your chest looking around like a predator like most guys do, rather pretend that you're having a conversation on your cell phone or talk to a friend but never sit alone gazing around.

Open using an opener with situational relevance, in a way you DO NOT convey sexual interest, facing body/feet in a different way you normally would while talking to somebody familiar. If you are worried that she might avoid conversation, don't be! Have you ever seen how openers are performed in movies? Almost all the time the man faces the bar, not showing any interest in starting and building conversation with the girl and throws a one line statement, usually a question or few words about something that he thinks is true about the target. Note that it is a good practice to hold a strong eye contact while facing your chest towards another direction. It is also common to lie and tell her you have just a few moments to talk because you are on your way back to your friends (perhaps pointing to your friends' table). In addition you can perform a body trick communicating to your target that you are about to leave but just when "you leave" you have another question or story to tell.

You can substantially improve your chance of performing a successful approach if you have girls with you. Ask a good friend who accidentally happens to be a girl to accompany you in your pick up, it will be fun for both of you. Afterwards always reward her with help in meeting guys.

Don't allow yourself to be fazed out by anything, if an opener fails, just come up with another one as if nothing happened. Absolutely nothing she says should ever be real obstacle between the two of you, of course excepting her boyfriend or husband's presence.

After running a few openers you will reach to a point when the group isn't wondering when you will leave, and instead starts hoping that you will stay. This is the moment when you change from a stranger into a member of their group, so enjoy your stay!

Best of luck in your future endeavors! And here are some more openers to help you be more successful in pick-up.