Its Over But I Really Want My Ex Back

I REALLY WANT MY EX BACK

As much as you didn't want it to end, your relationship seems to be over. But no matter how much you try to accept that, all that's been running through your mind lately is, "I really want my ex backreally want my ex backreally want my ex back" It's like an alarm clock on snooze. One minute, you're going on with life as usual, 10 minutes later, it's "I really want my ex back". Is it even possible to get your ex back?

Sure it's possible - no matter what led to the breakup. Couples reunite "all the time". If you know in your heart, "I really want my ex back", the important thing to remember is this: " We Are All Human". Which means that your ex has the same fundamental relationship needs as you do - FRIENDSHIP, RESPECT, AND PASSION. Somewhere along the way, one, some, or all of those needs got thrown to the wayside.

WAIT JUST A MINUTE

You can't say" I really want my ex back"without being willing to patch up old wounds. Before you begin to show your ex your undying love, slow down and back up a bit. If you've only just broken up, it's still too soon in the process to show your ex how eager you are to reunite. You first have to win their heart back.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Next, you have to show your ex that you Respect his needs at this time. Your heart's broken, you believe wholeheartedly "I really want my ex back" - you need to now show your ex the opposite. Show your ex that you are not dependent on him - that you don't NEED him. You must restrain from calling him too much, contacting his family, sending him emails or texts. Now is the time to show him that you Respect his needs.

By respecting his needs, you may start to feel impatient - that if you don't say or do something now, your chances of getting back together will disappear altogether. But a word of caution: " YOU MUST STAY COOL." This part can be unpredictable, which makes it suspenseful, but if your heart is saying" I really want my ex back", you have to be strong.

MISS INDEPENDENT

Don't be the desperate ex-girlfriend. Be the ex-girlfriend in control and don't give up when efforts seem hopeless! By backing off your situation, you actually gain a whole lotta respect - not only from your ex, but more importantly, from yourself. You will then be able to pursue your ex with a renewed energy, upping your success ratio exponentially!

REMEMBER

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In summary, if you're still saying" I really want my ex back", here's what you do:

1. "Friendship" - Meet his needs by:

- Paying "Attention" to the before and after of the breakup

- "Understanding" your new boundaries

- "Acceptance" of the present state of your relationship

- "Appreciation" for the positive impact he's made in your life

- Remembering the "Affection" you have for what makes him Him.

2. "Respect" - Whatever he's asking for now, give it to him knowing that you will be together again when the time is right. Lean on your friends and family for emotional support. Don't call on him or his family and friends for that support. Show him that you are emotionally independent before revealing your true feelings for him.

3. "Passion" - We humans somehow want the very things we can't have. By backing off the heat of the breakup, giving him what he needs from you, respecting the decisions that have already been made, your ex will see that you don't need him, and "that" will incite his passion for you.

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