You Can Stop Divorce And Save Marriage

Of course you want a happy marriage. Everyone does.

But does it seem like your marriage is falling apart in front of your eyes? And you don't know what to do?

Don't give up. There's still hope for you even if your spouse:

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REFUSES TO GO TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING,

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ISN'T "IN LOVE" WITH YOU ANY LONGER,

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WANTS A MARRIAGE SEPARATION,

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DOESN'T KNOW IF HE OR SHE WANTS TO STAY MARRIED,

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HAS ASKED FOR A DIVORCE, or

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IS ALREADY LIVING SEPARATELY FROM YOU.

It can feel like the end of the world when a spouse says "I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE" or "I'M LEAVING."

Especially if you didn't see it coming.

You've probably found that the announcement impacts every aspect of your life, and now you may be wondering if you can keep your balance.

If you're like most people in your situation, you're probably feeling scared and confused, not knowing what to do next. And the truth is yo are not alone. You've got plenty of company of others like you who don't know what to do.

You probably weren't taught positive marriage-building skills in school. If you're like most people, you're having to learn on your own.

And there are two main ways people usually learn: by trial and error or by finding out what people who are successful do.

YOU DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE on trial and error attempts to discover what will save your marriage. You need to know what precise steps to take right now to keep your spouse from bolting out of the marriage.

DO YOU HAVE THESE SYMPTOMS OF MARITAL DISTRESS?

Many in your situation experience these emotions and thoughts as their marriage is unraveling:

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DEVASTATED - "I've lost my dream of marital happiness."

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HOPELESS - "I don't know what to do."

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PESSIMISTIC - "Even marriage counseling probably won't help."

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ANGRY, especially if there's been an affair - "How could he (or she) do this?"

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EMBARRASSED - "What will I tell my family, friends, and neighbors?"

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AFRAID - "How can I handle this financially? I've read that an average divorce in the U.S. costs over 20,000."

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WORRIED - "How will the kids be affected if we divorce?" * LONELY - "How will I find someone else? I don't want to deal with the dating scene again."

One of my clients who went through divorce told me "I'd mch rather have have 1o root canals done on me that to go through that again." Unfortunately, this experience is all too common. It doesn't have to happen to you! Learn more here.

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