5 Ways To Cope With A Jealous Wife

Jealous wives can be a terrible liability. For some women where this trait is especially strong, it can be a great source of embarrassment for their husbands. Indeed, the green-eyed monster is a two-edged sword.

On the one hand, it's great to know she cares enough to be jealous, but one the other hand her constant nagging every time another woman pays you the slightest bit of attention can be a real pain in the neck.

The reasons for a woman's jealousy can be wide and varied. If her jealousy is the result of your behavior in the past - which may or may not have resulted in infidelity - then you have a much harder job of trying to stop her jealous ways. And, if even now you behave in a flirtatious manner around other women despite your wife's protests, then your task is going to be virtually impossible.

On the other hand, her jealous reactions to women around you may be nothing to do with you. You may be the ever-loving, faithful husband who has never put a foot wrong in his entire married life, yet a woman smiling at you in a shopping mall can send your wife into fits of apoplexy.

So, what are some of the best ways to cope with a jealous wife?

1. KEEP TELLING HER THAT YOU LOVE HER

It might be a bit of a drag, but if you regularly affirm your true love for your wife, then she may exhibit fewer signs of jealousy. Try to keep the romance alive as it was in the early stages of your life together, and she will tend not to consider every contact you have with another female as a threat to her hold on you as her husband. A jealous woman is always keen to be made a fuss over. Moreover, if your total focus is on her, you will have less time to be distracted by the attentions of other women.

2. DON'T COMMENT ON OTHER WOMEN

If your wife asks your opinion about the appearance of another woman, try to deflect the question onto another topic. Try and give the impression that the way another female looks holds absolutely zero interest for you.

3. IF SHE MAKES A SCENE IN PUBLIC, WALK AWAY

It is quite common for overly jealous women to make a scene in public if they think you are showing an interest in another woman, no matter how innocent. If she starts raising her voice in a shopping mall, for example, beat a hasty retreat to the car park or bathroom while she cools off.

4. SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP

Sometimes the guidance of a professional relationship therapist or counsellor can make a big difference in showing your wife that her jealousy is unfounded.

5. GIVE HER AN ULTIMATUM

If her jealousy becomes worse over time - to the point where is might damage your relationship - then you have to give her an ultimatum to calm down and change her ways, or you will be forced to take action. Sometimes a strong and jealous woman will respond to this more forceful approach. Only resort to this if all other avenues fail.

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