Attract A Man In 3 Easy Steps

HOW TO ATTRACT A MAN: STEP 1

TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND GO FOR IT! TALK TO PEOPLE... DO NOT SIT BACK AND HOPE HE COMES TO YOU! Talking to people not only makes you seem interesting, it broadens your world and you may just learn a thing or 2 that you didn't know..... This makes you more interesting. This will also help build your confidence, which is a really big deal, because men are attracted to confidence just as you are. So if you get into the habit of talking to people, even if it's just to say hello, you can bet that you're going to attract a lot more attention from people...and that includes men.

This might be a bit of a "sideways forward" kind of way to attract a man, but just think of the courting scene from the man's perspective. Believe it or not men are nervous and at times afraid of approaching women, they too have self-esteem issues, and let's face it.... being rejected is not fun, so if you show that you are socially assertive and show that you are interested in others then it makes the job that much easier for the man to approach you; and as a little bonus you may even surprise yourself and have a good time engaging in other peoples stories.

HOW TO ATTRACT A MAN: STEP 2.

APPEARANCE DOES MATTER SO TAKE CARE OF YOUR-SELF!

This may not be socially correct but it is true. Just think what characteristics do you like in a man? Fit? Intelligent? Funny? Showered and Shaven? Well dressed?

Well the same goes for men... We all can't look like super models but we CAN all take care of what we have... that means, showering daily, wearing a little make up to enhance our features, watching what we eat and getting out there every now and again for some exercise. The benefits of daily activity cannot be underestimated.

HOW TO ATTRACT A MAN: STEP 3.

DON'T MAKE IT EASY FOR HIM... PLAY A LITTLE HARD TO GET.

Men by nature are the hunters, so it makes sense to make it a little hard for him. Make him work for your attention... at the end of the day you are worthy of his love and vise a versa.

You may think this is playing games but you have to keep things in perspective. If you make it too easy for him, without the time needed to fall in love with you then it may be just a beautiful but brief sexual encounter. Of course, this isn't popular advice because most people think that you shouldn't "play games" to make him commit. Listen, everyone plays games in life to get what they want. In fact, life is nothing more than a long string of negotiations and persuasions. Just look back through your own history... negotiating with your parents to go to parties, and negotiating your way to a pay rise, or landing that perfect job.

The best way to play hard to get it is to find something that you are passionate about and to commit yourself to it. Make your man compete for his place in your life, and since men love a challenge, he'll do exactly that.

By this stage you probably on "cloud 9" now that you have his attention... so this is where patience comes in... don't be needy, nag him, place unrealistic demands on him...Try to live in the now and enjoy spending time with him. Of course when you are doing this it is very important to "BE YOUR-SELF" and be clear of your intentions, this is what I mean by keeping things in perspective!

Now that you have mastered these 3 simple steps on how to attract a man,

"Go get him!"

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