Just Internet Dating

You have joined an internet dating website, you have uploaded your photograph, you have written an honest profile and as a result you have met a few nice people but one just seems to be head and shoulders above the others. Could this person be the one? Well you will never really find out until you take the plunge and meet up in person. You really want to meet up but before you charge of in pursuit of the happy ever after, please take a few moments to read and digest some tips that will improve your time and make you feel secure. These tips apply to any date that you go on and not just internet dating. They represent basic common sense but sometimes when you think you are head over heels in love, common sense can be left at home. Your date will not think any less of you if you appear to be taking sensible dating precautions. The most important thing to do is to make a plan before you go on your date and make yourself a promise to keep to it. If your date wants you to step outside of your plan politely refuse and be honest about the reason. I would argue that someone worth pursuing a relationship with would understand and look forward to the next date with eager anticipation. Before you go out for the first time, it makes good sense to have a contact plan with a friend or family member. Perhaps get them to call you at a pre-arranged time so you can let them know that you are all right. Also make sure they are available for further contact should you need them. Before you go out on your first date I suggest that you do not exchange too many personal details such as home phone numbers or your address. Just use your mobile telephone number which is easier to change if there is a problem. Make your first date somewhere that is open, brightly lit and well populated. Consider a lunch date, it gives you enough time to evaluate your date and also provides a ready made excuse to leave. As part of your date plan, ensure that you have arranged transport home. Try to relax and have fun - it is why you are dating in the first place after all. Really try not to appear too keen as this can come accross as desperate and needy. On the other hand try not to be too shy and retiring. Trust your intuition and just be honest and be yourself. Love will find a way if it is meant to be. Happy dating. uwoo is a friendly, client focused internet dating website serving the United Kingdom. Reach us at http://www.uwoo.co.uk/ View Article Source