Relationship And People May Help You Make A Difficult Decision

Get back with your ex

If you are in a relationship and people are telling you in no uncertain terms that they think you should get out of the relationship maybe it is something you should listen to closely. Most people in a relationship can't see the bad stuff that is right in front of their faces and need someone close to them to point things out.

Even if you do not believe the people who are close to you, hear them out. They are on the outside looking in and have a different perspective than you do. Love is blind and if things are bad enough for someone close to you to want to step in then just keep an open mind and listen to what they have to say. Your relationship and people close to you are both important and you do not want to alienate anyone.

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Maybe you just do not want to leave the relationship because you are afraid you will not be able to support your children and yourself. Remember that if you move out and divorce him, he will most likely have to pay child support. That will help.

I know someone who set everything up about six months before she was going to leave. She went and spoke with the housing people and filled out all their forms and actually had a place to take her kids right away when she left. She got a little money in the divorce and with her job and the child support she was able to manage just fine.

If this appeals to you then keep in mind that these types of applications can take some time to get approved so give yourself plenty of time before you make the move. When you do get out of your bad relationship, do not just move down the street or into your parent's home. This will make it too easy for your spouse to find you. Move to the next county if you can so it is harder for him to find you and this will give you more time to sort things out and get everything in order for the divorce.

You can ask your family and friends for support and help you with babysitting and things like that, this should make the transition for your children better. They can be with people they know and not strangers in a day care center. They will be able to spend more time with their grandparents or other family members this way, too.

You could take the time right after you move out to find counselors for you and the kids, too. Get busy fixing the damage done by the bad relationship. The more you heal before you have to have contact with your soon-to-be-ex the better off you and the kids will be after the divorce. Do not just think that things will take care of themselves. They may or may not so why take chances? Get the help you need right off the bat. You can survive this relationship and people who love you are here to help.

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