Win Your Ex Wife Back Oh Yeah It Possible

If the thought to win your ex wife back has crossed your mind, take heart, many marriages have been salvaged from the wreckage of divorce and reinstated to a new, fresh and vibrant relationship that was never previously thought possible. With the finality of the divorce a reality and seemingly another chapter in your life's book closed, you may be looking back with regret and seriously questioning if you want to venture into that next chapter without her. With the ingredients of time and persistence mixed with a sincere desire to put forth the effort to not only rebuild, but improve on the relationship, there is always the chance of success to win your ex wife back.

First though you must take a long hard look at your personal motivations for wanting to win her back. You need to be able to clarify how and where the wheels started falling off and what will be needed to repair that. Next, you must be convinced that your relationship is worth saving. If you are mentally and emotionally at this point, then it is probably well worth your while to embark on this relationship restoration project. Just a word of caution... if your marriage was stormy from the start or if the trust of your spouse was seriously damaged you may want to think again about trying to get back together.

If you are sincere though, and are willing to invest 110 percent of your heart and mind to win your ex wife back, then you will definitely want to implement these steps into the process:

BE ABSOLUTELY OPEN AND TRANSPARENT WITH YOUR FEELINGS - She needs to know how you feel. It is vital, to your chances of getting her back, that she understands your intentions and that you present her with a clear picture of why you think your relationship can be restored to a place where it will be much better than it was. Show her that you have walked through your plan thoughtfully and share with her the process you are ready to commit to in order to rebuild the relationship.

ACKNOWLEDGE AND IDENTIFY YOUR MISTAKES - Sure there was probably fault on your ex wifes side that contributed towards the breakup, or perhaps you even feel it was mostly her doing. Nevertheless, as the saying goes, "it takes two to tango" and when a marriage crumbles there are always two to blame. So acknowledge your faults and then bring to the table a well drawn up action plan of what you are going to do to remedy them. Manning up is a must if you are serious about your pursuit to get your ex back.

BE READY AND WILLING TO LISTEN, LISTEN AND THEN LISTEN TO HER! - You will most likely hear one of two things. Either she has no interest in working things out and getting back together but has lots to say about all the things that went so terribly wrong. Or you will discover that she has a kindred spirit and is desiring to restore the relationship and work towards reconciliation. Whatever the scenario, it is paramount the you hear her out and contemplate both her criticisms and suggestions with a sincere commitment to consider what she says. You must listen without interrupting and be sure not to take on a defensive attitude. The whole of your plan, at this point, is to listen and more importantly understand what your ex wife has to share. To win your ex wife back you are going to need to become proficient in listening. Here are a few words of wisdom that you will be wise to follow: "Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." I strongly advise implementing that counsel of the sages if you want to get your wife back.

RESPECT HER TIME AND SPACE - If she needs time to evaluate the things you've shared with her, and your plan of restoring the relationship, by all means be more than cooperative and give it to her. Even though you may be eager to dive right in and win your ex wife back like a knight in shining armor, it will be well worth your while at this point to reign in your enthusiasm. Although you may make her sit up and take notice by such impassioned action you just may, on the other hand, sabotage your plan and upset her with "too much too soon."

TO WIN YOUR EX WIFE BACK DO SOME SELF IMPROVEMENT

Maybe the most important step in the process to win your ex wife back is to show your openness to working on and improving yourself so that you will be a better partner. Accomplish this by self-introspection. Analyze yourself and find those things you know to be negative aspects in your life and personality, then make the necessary changes. Adopt a positive mindset to life and start to become the man you really desire to be. You need to do this for you, not her. Yes, understand that she is a big part of what is motivating you, but also realize that these changes will make you a better all round person with or without her. By putting effort into being healthier, stronger and more positive you will end up being a much happier and fulfilled person.

Slow it down - If you find that your ex wife is reacting to you in an amiable fashion and is on board with working things out, make sure that you implement a slow, but steady restoration process. Even though you may want everything to be back to normal right away, it is unreasonable to anticipate or expect this to happen. Damaged relationships are very fragile and your partner will no doubt be very guarded and perhaps somewhat skeptical, so don't expect an overnight miracle. Hand in hand, cautiously and thoughtfully, approach one issue at a time and work through it together. This need not be a time of stress and anxiety. On the contrary, you need to make it a time of enjoyment where you both can bring back to life the spark that was lost and that special feeling of just being together. Planning date nights should be a part of the plan to win your ex wife back. Don't feel like you need to rush romance, the passion will naturally fall into place...

There are never any absolute guarantees in life, and even when you take these steps to win your ex wife back there is still a chance things may not work out. Either way, be encouraged that you are doing the right thing regardless of the outcome. Putting in the effort of improving yourself and being able to share your true feelings and intentions with your ex wife will go a long way in bringing the healing and closure that the divorce proceedings couldn't. It may seem hard to grasp right now, but it really is a win win situation. By improving your overall self and becoming more of who you really want to be, you will be more content with yourself and more attractive to others... hopefully and most importantly this will enable you to win your ex wife back.

If you've gone through a divorce but are nowhere near ready to move on, maybe you need to put some serious thought and effort into winning your ex wife back. I want to offer you my free report "How To Save Your Relationship Even if Your Partner is Stubborn". Get immediate access to it here: http://www.marriageisworthsaving.com/report/ If you would like more advice and encouragement for getting your ex back and restoring your marriage please stop by my site: http://www.marriageisworthsaving.com/getting-your-ex-back

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